why Blush!!/Weaker Sex??

Why is it that guys,we always blush,when some one teases us,with a girl,whom we like.It does not have to be like "like like" but just like the girl.Even if they are valid friends.Does it have to do something with our Hormones,or our abstract heart,that seems to be the centre of attraction here.

Do the girls feel the same way? May be /May be not.We always hear that girls are more mature than guys of the same age.That is why we have the Indian custom of always marrying to younger girls,so the marraige could be Harmonious( no content overflow,Yeah rite!!).

Coming back to the point again,do girls feel the sameway,or is it that they do not show their feelings outwardly and we guys tend to be open hearted.They surely do not suppress their feelings.They are the first to burst out in tears after watching a emotional scene.


We say that women are the weaker sex,and yet still we cannot tell a lie and get away with it from them.A man be the boss of a billion dollar company,but is a servant before his wife.That is true to the bare bones...Wife of the boss is always called as the supreme commander!!.The abstract qualities always seem to overwhelm men... wat dumb idiots we are.

Personal experience,nothing can get past my mom!! for sure!!Is that bcos she is my mom ,or bcos she is a woman? My questions still remain unanswered??

Physical strengths matter only to an extent after which we need to totally rely on our emotional strength.And women seem to fair far more better than Men in that.


-Alphy

Reminiscence...

Does our past really affect the future that we are trying to create?All our actions have consequences.If you believe in the maker,then your life has already been laid out with a plan and it undergoes implementation on a daily basis ,one chunk at a time.It is our lifetime's goal to understand,why our life was planned in this way.

This is exactly,what Matrix,talks about.Except the difference,that Matrix is a trilogy and I am talking about our life here.One of my friend says," life is what we make out of it".Does it mean we have choices? But we do not get always ,the things we want,even after putting all the effort.Then where is the choice part in that intricate equation?

I ain't a theologian,or a philosopher,but there is always a puppeteer and that is for certain.Some call it Fate,others "God's thougtful Hand" .

I don't seem to find the answer even within myself or for that matter from the external world either.I hope time will an answer for all my questions.

-Alphy

Dukes of Hazzard( My Review)

Endala endala,that is a single phrase to define the action packed,crazy comedy of the film this is.Do you know that this was directed by an Indian named Jay chandrasekar(Hope I got his name right?) Man,this raucous comedy along with Konxville and Sean made this movie a must c for me.( I know,that I saw the movie really late like six months after release,but still,I saw it!! )

Jessica simpson,seemed to spice up the movie just enough to have the feminine/sexy touch on this.Pretty cool huh,thank God they did not try to overdo though.The movie theme is simple,two guys trying to save their county from the bad villains,who seem to own the law.Any normal person,would have tried a different approach,but for the Dukes,it ain't their way!

The story revolves around multiple roles ,which seem to be held in place correctly,by the superb direction and script.

If you like Bad Boyz I & II and Die Hard( all three parts,I am yet to see the 4.0),you have gotta see this movie.Awesome fun!!!

-Alphy

Reasons to enjoy life

I Cannot believe,that I am writing this,but I have to do this .

Why do we have to live our life
* It is short,so make the best out of it
* Make hay while the sun shines,cos if you are capable of doing something,it is
now,or it is never!!
* Time and tide waits for no man/woman( I am not a sexist).Apportunities go by and
you may not have a second chance.
* Laugh and the whole world laughs with you,but when you cry,you cry alone.That is
the underlying basis of our society.Know that and you can survive anywere in the
world.u can take my word on that or learn from practical experience urself...:)
* Hard work always Payoff,that is what they say.....
( I am yet to get used to that first two words)


Things that have pain and happiness together

* Everything in this world is like that.....
It's like the matter and anti-matter,that formulates the basic theory behind
the creation of our universe.

* Heaven and Earth,Good and Evil,Happiness and Sadness,Up's and Down's :)


* My life graph nevers follows a specific path,it has its up's and down's like the one shown below


**
* *
Happiness * ************** * *
* * * * * ** *
* * * * * **** ***
------*----*--------------------*---------*----------------------*> Time
* * * * *
* * *****
Sadness **




The Graph based on my life seem pretty much ok,since my parents take care of me.
Shit will get real,once I move out of my parents house for real.It is going Hell for me!!
I ain't kiddin,cos I know,about me.Belive me when I say that....


Well you could share your experience here about your life,may be I can learn a few
things like .... etc

chow!
-Alphy

Horroscope:Real or Reel?

Why do we show importance to horroscopes? soothsayers or for that matter an type of astrologists?Do you think their saying become reality?Do I think ,they are real? nope.It is absolute crap,but still if the astrologists says sleep on the left side of the bed and you might not get hit by a bus.And you will do it.Me hell yeah,cos I believe in living rather than dying.

Does this have to do with our attitude,our brain,or our hearts?Still remains a mystery to me .Or does it relate to outup bringing.RED color in china brings good luck,but the same color is despised in Italy(Pulled this of from HSBC,our local bank's AD). Cat should not cross your path,if it does,make sure it crosses from left to right,which I assume brings no luck,but helps you avoid BaD luck!!! All these superstition,were good enough for our ancestors,why do we think it will not help us?Audacity on our part?

Finally at the EOD,what has to happen ,happens and there is no way to avoid consequences for our actions.unless you are like a time traveler.moving from one dimension to another in a jiffy.I would say ,that it is time for us to face the world and not hide behind masks of cowardice.Still I could be wrong!!


( your supertitiously ignorant fnd)
-Alphy

Almost Famous??

Have you ever wondered,or thought about becoming a movie star,a singer,hell yeah a famous racer bike or car.me I would prefer bikes.Does it hurt to dream like that.One thing is for sure,for every action,there is always a reaction,this does not confine to the realm of science alone.This is applicable to all matters of life.I am telling you this from my own experience.

One cannot aim to be always on an upward gradient,cos u have to stop,once u reach the top.And there is only one possible way to move from there,down ,gravity pulling you with all its strength.The other possible option to maintain at that height and it is really tough...

My school teacher used to say " it is not difficult to get 100 once in a while ,but it is really tough to maintain that 100 in all the tests." Now that is hard work.you don't get that by working for three hours just before the test.That is laborious work.I have understood,only one thing from here years of experience,living as a person.most of my fnds would disagree on that.Working Hard does not mean that you get your desires on a silver platter,but it is that you might get the thing that you desire.Again "might".But it wud make you feel happy,since you would know,that you had put all your effort to attain the same.


Nothing beats hard work in that respect!!

-Alphy

Meeting with Stupidity ?

I don't understand what it is,but speed always seems to be my partner in crime.It is like I am the positive pole and speed the negative pole.Think about the attraction bw these two....If i do my work wrong,it is bcos i did it in a hurry Yesterday,I almost swiped a guy at 80,but it was not my fault... the worse thing ,he apologized,while driving the bike at 40km and I did lose my concentration and scratched my bike along the median.The new median in the GST road is like 21/2 ft high and I scratched the entire stretch.Thank God that leg guards were invented,else I would have big chunk of flesh missing in my right feet!!
wat can I say ,I thank God that i was able to recover immediately from that stint with the Median.

It was lesson learnt though,that i shud always have my eyes in front of the me looking @ the road and not on the side of the road!!

-Alphy

Work...

Lately I am not able to find time,to update my Blog.But my friend's says that ,if you want to do something,you can always find time.Does that mean,my blog is just a phase in my life? or for any other activities,that i am trying to do.well some of em like losing weight,seems to be my fault.I don't do it cos, i am lazy.Not that i du not find time...Hmmmm.... u must be thinkin,wat kinda crazy idiot is this guy,who puts words together that seem to make no sense at all....

Even I think like that.I need to revitalize the thought to live my life,rather than to let my life pass by.I am growing older by the day and I always have the tendency to postpone my work.Why does that happen.Well ,the fact remains simple,I have been wasting my time lately on stuff that does not seem to matter a lot..How is it that others(other than me),always find time to do the darnest of all the things,and also find time to excel in their field of work or watever that they do?

Thinking on this,I find that there are large gaps of time with zero productivity.Why is that?Am I spacing out?Alter egos....Nah i don't think so...or do I?
Once I find the answer I 'll post it here...If u can focus some light on this subject also,Please be my guest and enlighten me... :)

until then good bye from this &%$#@! ( I don't seem to find any apt word to fit my precise thought)
-Alphy

Newsflash:dumb & dumberer go on vacation....

Recently on NDTV,there was a debate about the News channel and their gory stupidity. There was this CEO of a Newsprint,throwing an example ,to explain the nature of the so called Media. "There was this scorpion,which wanted to cross the river,so it sat on top of the frog and told it to swim across the river.the scorpion as its nature to kill everything at site,stings the frog.Naturally the scorpion also starts to drown,along with the frog.So the frog asks,why did u sting me? scorpion says "It is my nature,there is no other reason!!".

Well if this how a CEO of the Media group has to say,then what kind of reponsibility are they liable for? Moral of the story.the scorpion also dies,cos it was not able to curb its nature. The Media also is gonna suffer,if it's not gonna excercise restraint.

They have lost the credibility factor now, since they just report wat ever information that they can get their hands on ...Does a girl trying to commit suicide,make headlines? she is not commmiting suicide for a selfless cause,but for her own desires.What does this gotta do with the people at large.

If this is related to a well known family,put this in the Entertainment news and not on Headlines...

I was one of the Idiot's watching this,cos all channels were carrying the same damn story.Pathetic,is the state in which the News & Media is heading towards....
One more thing is the catchy headlines,they concoct "Gere out of GEAR!!" what the heck does that mean?

Media has the freedom to put the news wat ever it may be!! But they need to restrain themselves from exploiting that freedom,else we will have to find the hard way ,the cost to keep that freedom,free.

-Alphy

Facts of life....

Have u ever wondered,why this("Some exceptional bad/good event") had to happen to me of all the people in the world. That is exaclty wat my fnd is going through now.I would never be able to realize the pain he is going through,but it surely,does bring up a question as how do we guys deal with relation ships....
It is nobody's fault,but just the way God has designed our heart and mind in completetwo different opposite ways.There are always two criteria to be met "your mind and and heart should be in sync" else you are pretty much screwed.
Hope is one of the most powerful weapon that we have.It seems like it is double edged sword,so it can hurt bothways.
There is a proverb in tamil "aavathum penalla,azhiavthum penalla".Kinda of seems apt for this situation.My hope is now,that i would be able to help my friend in this time of turmoil.I am at loss for words to console him,but I ain't gonna give up so easily...
Life is a hard for everyone and it is literally a Bed of roses(don't forget the thorns that line the roses either...).Looks & feels like heaven,doesn't it.
Putting my thoughts here has really helped me to realize,one thing,opening up your heart to any one or even to a piece of paper really helps to heal your wounds.Though closure looks like a distant future,still we can see the same in the distant future :)

Reservations!!

Before I start of this rant,i would like to make this clear " I am playing the neutral here"
In this latest political battle for the reservations in the educational institutions.

This is not to avoid any dilemma,but if you could just peruse the various ...
which i will layout now,you might realize this is far more rooted problem than any other.

* How can a student studying in some village aim for AIMS? or for the matter any other prestigious institution.Don't come back to me with one in a million cases!!

* Similarly,who has the right to deny a 2nd rank student the Medical seat,just b cos he lost the seat due to reservations.

Now let me give you some thoughts for you to rumminate!!

* do you want a doctor,just based on high marks?
* do you want a doctor,who actually cares about your health?
* do you want a doctor,who wants to make money only !!

**do you want a doctor who can make money as well as take care of your health??

think about these thoughts for a moment and then you will realize that it is really
difficult to make a decision.

so just forgetting about this is not gonna help,but we need to put ourselves at
risk to accept one fact over other,so it if does no work out ,we can revert back to the other....

but the majority of INDIANS fall under the reservation catergory so may be one day we could have 100 % only for MBC and BC and the other castes that i du not remember....

wer do the other people go? are they not INDIANS??

The government should actually improve their educational structure so that all become equally competent for the prestigious institutions.BUt we can't blame the government either,cos
the tax paying community is reall y small compared to the actual masses who need this.


this is all a political stance! and politician seem to the reaping the benefit of this entire escapade!!!

life seemed so blissful,when ur ignorant....

-Alphy

"MP's/MLA's" Convoy

While travelling on the main roads of chennai,Have you ever come across this situation...
you are riding your car or bike and suddenly,u see red lights flashing on u r rear view mirror,so u pull to the sides of the road,to let it through.But you find it to be a convoy of cars,taking ministers to fictious meetings.What are they gonna do,being so early to any place for that matter.... Huh?

to make matters more worse,they cause unnecessary piles ups and put all motorists at risk!!

one more thing,they acceralate fast,but not drive fast.They think they own the road literally....

yesterday,b cos of this convoy ,a 10 minute ride became a 15 minute ride for me,cos when ever i try to overtake,they damn honk their horns like bizzare!! so i pull back thinkin ,he will overtake u and go fast,but no.... he still remains in the same damn place.

some one has to take the right for any MLA or MP to have the convoy or flashing red light.
if they seriously need to be in a meeting,better take that seriously and start one hour before schedule.

Are we not told to do the same??

politics still remains a mystery to common man.

-Alphy

Political thunderstorms....

To be a politician ,you need to be like a service provider,trying to meet the needs of the masses,trying hard to make their county/district a better place.That was how people perceived politicians.And this is how i/we view the political setup as.
One needs to have the following qualifications * should a bigger gunda,so it is easier to put fake votes and capture booths if required. * Must have a family member already part of the existing political strata. * must have the ability to listen to the people's woes and let it dripple out through the other ear.
If this is politics,who the heck who would want to join? Having said all these,there was a recent proclaimation in the papers by politicians that TAMIL should be made the medium of instruction in all professional colleges and other places(i du not exactly remember...).What the heck is that about? Are we trying to go back in time? DO you have any idea,how many students,are missing out oppurtunities,just because,they cannot communicate in english to others properly. Even France is facing that issue and its President,who has realized his follies and trying to rectify by providing English classes to all.

I am not against TAMIL or any other langauage,i am just expecting people,to realise that based on emotions and nostalgia,we cannot survive in the world.If we have to make a MARK in this world,we need to do it in our way,but not by seggregating ourselves,from the crowd,but by identifying ourselves as different.that is all.TAMIL should be give its due diligence,but that should not hinder us from achieving the goal of global identification.
Due you know,the reason,why our Honorable communication Minister is able to make his mark,because he is able to communicate his thoughts to the probable investors through a common medium.What seperates him from the common politician weilding a sickel is knowledge and the global language english.
I have nothing else to add here.....
-Alphy

Jar heads

Now this is a new term that i have come up with to describe the following set of people.

* guys who think a small car can be driven like a bike

Man,u shud c these guys complete jarheads,cutting and swerving on the road like punks let loose on a beach. The ironic fact is that i will be like that if i get a car.It seems that the effect of the bike still adheres to the pea sized brain of ours.With power steering and disk brakes,who cannot drive the car like a bike. It is not speed that is dangerous here but the fantasy that u can squeeze your mid sized car between two trucks with a bikerider in between honking his 90DB horn on a chaotic frenzy.

* Me,I drive my bike on an average speed of 75 to 80.
U must be thinking,wer the heck he finds space to drive the bike at that speed. Did I say everywhere?Once u cross guindy and the road is like a three lane freeway end to end to my place :P All I need a single person on a bike to tick me off and I am off for a frenzy tag with the others on the road.The exhilaration helps me vent of steam if I am angry also.cool huh??

* Radical politicians,who think they own the freakin road.PUNKS!!!
They have these new scorpios which can accelerate from 0 to 60 in like 15secs.They pass through danger with its teeth hanging out.


-Alphy

Garbage Trucks!!

The purpose of garbage trucks is to collect garbage from all the residential areas and dump em in reserved areas for decomposition or watever is that they do with that.But in chennai,it seems that it kinda of follows a different concept.

Step 1:They take garbage from all residential areas
Step 2:While taking the garbage to the dumping grounds,try to reduce the load,by dissipating
the noisome and the garbage on the riders,who travel on the damn main road.
( I think it is like a new solution for constrained space for dumping grounds....)
Two wheelers are the most affected.I come under that and that's why i am writing this :(


I du not find a step ,where the garbage actually goes to the dumping ground.

1) why don't they do this in the night time? so the morning goers can avoid the noxious smell
2) why don't the garbage men,act reponsible here? They might be taking garbage,but still they hold responsibility for that job!!

3) work ethics huh? what is that?


-Alphy

Good[y] ?

Jade goody is back in India for a tour of this cultured Nation.According to her,this is a private visit and not be associated as an publicity stunt....Well did i mention,that she gave a donation of some amount to a charity organisation in Delhi.Well if that ain't a stunt,i wud reckon what else could be categorised in that list?

Film star's and actor! what to do with them?They thrive on the fictitious belief ,that they cococt in their studios and damnest thing is that we fall for that :( are we stupid enough ?

It's time we start to repesct people for their qualities in real life and not for their qualities on [mega mini medium] serials and films.People in TamilNadu always fall for these sentimental shows ,which seems to propagate a ripple effect in the real world.

How many wives have delayed the cooking to watch a serial? guys ??? we fall for different stuff huh?i would think everyone will agree with that.... :)

**This account was not intended to offend any specific sex.(there are more than two nowadays)
-Alphy

Traffic cops & Helmets....

I was recently updated with an incident.Two software professionals a boy and a girl on a bike(what make not known?) met with an accident.I cite again "an accident".While driving near the pallikarnai marshes,their bike skidded and the guy survived,cos he wore an helmet.unfortunately,the girl,did not wear an Helmet,so the head injuries proved fatal and she died on the spot( i think....).May God rest her soul in peace.Moving on,i reckon,that this proves the use of the helmet.or this is a just bad case of driving or more negligence on part of the driver?

Now the paradox,lies,in the fact,How the cops are gonna implement the new order that all occupants of two wheelers should wear an Helmet.The new law might save the lives of the people,i am sure it is a gurantee to keep their purses empty, though :).

Laws are good,and proffessinal offenders seems to do well while breaking the law,but only the first time offenders and the innocent get caught in this dusty cobweb.Laws by themselves are just words,unless someone enforces them...Cops do that and it would not be an hindrance,if they started enforcing the same with some dignity and caution.Haughtiness is what complicates life.

-Alphy

Britney does it again.....

Brtiney spear's goes bald and the cut hair is being sold for 1 million.What the heck is the world coming to? Spears seems to be making news sensation after the split with her third husband kevin.Hmmm... That seems to be the trouble ain't it?

it seems like She need attention and she seems to be getting the same from media to boost her self confidence.I am not here to tarnish her image,believe me when i say i was one of her fans and fell inlove with her music,after listening to her debut song...

So what does this all lead to? i don't think any one has actually bought it.else it would settle a different meaning to the whole concept of what can be sold and not!!

man,if i have to cut my hair and sell,even the guys who make thoses wigs,won't accept it!!

i hope the money gets channelled to some NGO's ,it could be useful for them :

pretty good in heart ! me. ain't i?

-Alphy

Flying High

I am claustrophobic,so any confined space looks a oven ready to bake me.The classic feeling that I pronounce ,is that i am not able to breathe properly,with my legs becoming restless and so on...

Coming to the topic in hand,airplane is in fact a tin can filled with lot of combustible substance ready to explode,with the slighest provocation.(that is how I view it).Recently,there was an article in BBC news website,that first time flyers in India do not know about the flying etiquette that needs to be followed.With guys like me,How the heck do they expect us to be calm in a combustible tin can.One guy tried to open the planes door,before taking off.I wonder what he must have been feeling.Nauseous?


My question is:Are the airlines trying to dampen the situation faced by these people.Everyone can come up with an answer of being understaffed !!!

If you by any chance take a low budget airline,make sure that you insure your life,cos it will come in useful not for you though,may be for your family....

I heard rumours that once a air deccan flight from banglore to chn had to go back to bangalore airport due to technical snag,that is not all,once the flight had a light show,with light switched off for ten minutes,without the knowledge of the passenger or the cabin crew ?

Life is precious and it should not be wasted on trifle matter.

High tech chicanery

It seems like,there is an increase in the number of BOTS running on the NET.As I mentioned in my previous post,i was recent victim of a BOT ruse,that worked out really well for the BOT.And it seems to continue.....

In this site friendorama,I have actually registered,due to compulsion to view a member.any way,moving on ,I regularly like atleast two in a week hits on my webpage,there.But wen i reply back,I actually du not get a reply.

Now if a person had actully tried to access mysite,without having interest,she would not have mailed me.Now why are they not replying.The most logical answer that comes to my mind,is simple,BOTS!!! .

These tactics make sure that I access the website regularly.I was praising the guy who came up with the idea,now it plain annoying: (
they should have an option,so i can delete my account completely from their system....

argh...........

-Alphy